The latest installment of www.MonicaAtHome.com

Monica Foster @ Home special report on HIV, STDs, the CCR5 delta 32 gene mutation and the need for condom usage in porn


Part 1


Part 2


Part 3

Below is a special report I felt the need to do on www.MonicaAtHome in regards to the recent report on October 12, 2010 of a porn actor testing positive for HIV resulting in himself and an unnamed number of other performers being quarantined.


Part 1


Part 2

Many ask why I decided to stop working as an adult actress back in early 2009 - there are many reasons why (as you can read on my blogs: www.GettingOutOfPorn.com and http://monicafoster.blogspot.com ) but a primary reason had to do with realizing that I felt that maintaining my health and living life free of STD's far outweighed any amount of money I could have earned as a "pornstar".

Today while checking the adult industry news website and blogs to collect material for my weekly broadcast www.MonicaAtHome.com I came across the following post on www.lukeisback.com :

http://www.lukeisback.com/?p=14165 - HIV POSITIVE AT AIM?

Allegedly a male "crossover" performer (a male adult actor who works in both gay and straight porn)has tested HIV positive via AIM (www.aim-med.org) and consequently as of current 1 female talent and 3 male talents who have had exposure to him are now quarantined from the adult movie talent pool (reportedly the number of quarantined individuals is growing).

I've stated many times over the past year or so that NOW IS NOT THE TIME to attempt a career as a porn talent. If you want to get in on the adult entertainment world start as a SOLO WEBCAM model FROM THE COMFORT AND SAFETY of your OWN HOME.

Full report plus my thoughts (video blog - Monica @ Home special report) on the "California porn actor who tested HIV positive - several other quarantined" news story - click here.

Here is a link to the confirmation of the rumor on AVN.com http://business.avn.com/articles/Adult-Performer-Tests-HIV-415455.html

And another link as reported via the LA Times: http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2010/10/porn-actor-has-tested-positive-for-hiv-industry-clinic-officials-confirm.html

Familiarize with the following:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Force_de_Frappe

...whether you are my friend or foe (it really doesn't matter who you are - I love the game...and those who love the game are the best players).

Another fresh installment of Monica @ Home from 10-01-2010 - more on www.youtube.com/MonicaAtHome

Part 1


Part 2

Finally getting some of the Monica @ Home archives on www.youtube.com/MonicaAtHome! Enjoy.

10-6-2010 part 1


10-6-2010 part 2


10-6-2010 part 3


09-17-2010 part 1


09-17-2010 part 2


more on www.youtube.com/MonicaAtHome !

Pay It Forward

There have been many instances in my life of which people I've barely known or who I haven't known at all, have gone out of their way to help me - so now it's time for me to do the same and to ask you, my readers, fans and friends to do the same as well.

Please visit the following blog:

http://SupportTheo.blogspot.com

Read and familiarize yourself with the information both posted on and linked to from the blog and then hand write, notarize and mail in the attached petition no later than October 14th.

Another fresh installment of Monica Foster @ Home

Part 1


Part 2


Part 3


tonight I discuss Epassporte.com shutting down, the upcoming X-Play Halloween party on October 30th, This Ain't Avatar XXX, the possible upcoming release of an actual Tiger Wood's Sex tape on October 20th, the upcoming Google TV, Asia Carrera's final blog post (at least for a while), and male supermodel Teo Teodoridis and how he needs our support.

Asking for Help, Giving Thanks, Taking & Receiving

I'm in the middle of reading an excellent book right now that was recommended to me by someone who guides many. Actually I've read another good book as well lately, which was recommended to me by my father entitled "Who Moved My Cheese".

The book I'm reading as of current though, has really made me re-evaluate my past mindset and views when it comes to asking for help, giving thanks, taking and receiving.

I've always been a giver (an excessive giver in fact) mainly because it's something that has always been easy for me to do. I've also never had a problem saying "thank you" - even when the thanks wasn't always warranted.

I've had two things of which in the past I've always had trouble doing however:

1) Asking for help.
2) Receiving

Sometimes it simply takes admitting yourself and identifying your troubles and issues in order to get past them - amazing how that is.

By creating www.gettingintoporn.com and http://gettingintoporn.blogspot.com I know I've helped many who are active within the adult entertainment industry in creating a better career for themselves. Through my websites - primarily www.MonicaF.com and it's attached social networking profiles I know that I've set an example as to how work and build a career for yourself within the adult entertainment industry independently.

I've received many emails from quite a few men and women expressing gratitude and I've been touched. However I have noticed, especially as of late, that there are a number of individuals who are using my work as a template/outline/example - yet are not acknowledging (or even saying a simple "thank you") so.

Furthermore a few of these individuals have outright attacked and/or attempted to bash me professionally and personally without just cause. I do not like this.

Interestingly enough certain individuals who have displayed such behavior have found that they've fallen upon troubles when it comes to their projects (in one case a person's entire website seems to have disappeared). Perhaps if they'd given thanks appropriately, rather than being dysfunctional - karma would not have bit them in the ass.

Lesson learned here? Find a balance in life - ask for help when needed, say thank you when appropriate - give and receive in a balanced fashion.