Sunday, January 30, 2011



Monica Foster at Home on Kacey Jordan, Charlie Sheen, Melanie Rios and Montana Fishburne

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Another new installment of www.MonicaAtHome.com !



Monica Foster discusses her new favorite band Muse, the OhMiBod sex toy her new book Getting Into Porn - The Handbook, the recent interview between Shelley Lubben and Michael Whiteacre and how it touches on a lot of the current politics in porn.
Later in the show Monica touches on the recent accident Kimora Klein was in and how sexy cora passed away.
At the end of the show monica discusses american apparels racey new porn inspired ad campaign and congratulates Tee Reel and Tori black on
their new maintstram project of which Half Moon which will be realeased on DVD.

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

When you decide to enter porn, you also have to decide how to EXIT porn when (if) you decide to.

I'll go more into detail about this another day, but what I will say is that I'm fortunate to have had a "pre-adult industry" skill set - I can honestly say that it's helped me avoid a lot of depression that I would be experiencing otherwise.

My best advice would be while you're still working in porn - whether it be via being a porn actress, webcam model, stripper, etc - start developing your career (I suggest your own business) in your spare time.

I've found that much of the marketing efforts that I put into developing "Monica Foster" easily translate into the business I'm planning on launching and running. Often times you might even find that your adult industry persona may even ADD to your next business venture or phase of life. For example adult super star "Lupe Fuentes" just launched her own clothing line of which she also models for (click here to check it out).

If you stay positive and maintain a certain level of drive you can accomplish anything in life - no matter what you've done or where you've been. All that really matter at any point is where you are GOING!

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Last Friday's www.MonicaAtHome.com broadcast.

Thursday, January 13, 2011


My most recent 2 broadcasts of www.MonicaAtHome.com - enjoy :)




Sunday, January 09, 2011


Well I'm a solid day into being 32 years old and I feel like a solid "adult"...finally :) I've definitely ridden a full 360 degree upward spiral from 3 years ago.

Through out all the ups and downs (personal and professional), friends made, friends lost, loves found and loves lost I feel I've been given such a wonderful opportunity to really develop as a person (I'm a much better version of who I was prior) and gain a fantastic knowledge as to what's really going on in the world and in our society.

I feel that over the next 8 years I'll be able to create a pretty prosperous, positive and fulfilling life. I don't think it will be easy, but I'm willing to put in the hard work.

I'm afraid this blog will probably begin to become fairly boring now being that Monica Foster will primarily just be my "webcam girl" personality from here on out, but hey - that's who Monica Foster was initially to begin with.

Thursday, January 06, 2011

I uploaded 2 new live broadcasts of www.MonicaAtHome.com to http://www.youtube.com/MonicaAtHome

Below is the broadcast from last night, and probably one of my best broadcasts as of late - I've added a new live Call-In / Skype-in feature to the show! My skype ID for the show is "MonicaAtHome01"


Wednesday, January 05, 2011

I've been waking up very early lately - that's one of my resolutions for 2011 - to wake up early everyday. I'm not sure if waking up early really makes a difference in your quality of life or not, however being that most successful people in life seem to do that one thing, I figure that's a good start in my attempt create a successful personal future.

To those who read my blog - you should feel pretty good about your own lives, because I seriously doubt your lives are anywhere close to being as embarrassing as my own. I'll be 32 in 2 days and though I'm not 100% pessimistic or depressed about my own situation - I'm not exactly feeling like sunshine or rainbows about it.

Another 2011 resolution - not to be living in Los Angeles any longer by the summer. I want to move away from here and simply disappear into another phase of existence. Living here has felt like a lifetime in itself - an exciting one yes but not a fulfilling one.

The final 2011 New Years resolution (and birthday resolution) I'll share with you is that I'm staying away from all situations and people who can bring trouble or uncertain outcomes into my life. By nature I'm a typical "sure footed" Capricorn, but due to my propensity to become bored I've tended to seek out ways to walk on the wild side. Well...no more of that - EVER.

The one good thing about all the events that have led up to my present over the past decade is that I've learned that you can't get anything in life without hard work (at least I can't) and that the only person you can really rely on is yourself.

Monday, January 03, 2011


A while ago I wrote a blog on the French phrase "Force de Frappe" - it's a phrase my Dad familiarized me with. Both of my parents have given me such good advice and knowledge of concepts and the world in general through out my life, much of which I truly didn't understand until much later. I had no idea how much the concept of "Force de Frappe" would play into my life...until now.

For those of you who have been keeping up with me, you all know about the Monica Foster / Lenny Dykstra "scandal"...I'm not so certain it is really a scandal - it's just a situation I never should have gotten myself into - however hindsight is indeed always 20/20.

Since deciding to speak out publicly about the situation I've been on a rollercoaster ride that has taken me into some of the deepest pits of hell and back again (I suppose it's a good thing I'm already familiar with the upper levels of hell).

Last night I nearly lost my sanity due to an internet stalker I've attracted who fixates on pornstars (but who I've fought back against) who is a Dykstra "supporter" along with being someone who really hates when women (especially black women) don't keep their mouth shut.

Force De Frappe...yes - that phrase defines Monica Foster because no, I can't win or triumph over an entire group of people, way of thought, way of life or industry alone - but I can bring to light and damage the ideals of such people, industries and screwed up practices somewhat. I may be rendered depleted in the end, but I will always stand up for myself and defend others when I'm able to and when it's necessary. My birth name Alexandra, means "defender of man" and that tells you everything you could ever need to know about the woman behind Monica Foster.

Let this be a lesson as to what one little single woman alone in her one bedroom apartment at her computer can do in regards to fighting back against many with thousands if not millions of dollars.

A big thank you to RadarOnline.com , DealBreaker.com , BusinessInsider.com , BlogTv.com , Youtube.com , Google.com and my friends at Desire Street Productions.com

The above links are to mainstream news articles about my most recent situation. Shove it up your ass Dykstra and those in the adult entertainment industry who attacked my family because you were too afraid of me.

Don't miss www.MonicaAtHome.com LIVE tonight at 10pm PST on www.blogtv.com

Saturday, January 01, 2011

Welcome to 2011 - enjoy my 2010 Monica Foster @ Home wrap up below!